One of the nearly universal facts of college life is the isolation and loneliness in the first few days away from home, amid the overwhelming numbers of people occupying a dorm. We drown in a sea of unfamiliar faces in search of the one or the few who know us intimately. The innate need for relationships was pressed into my soul during a recent trip to Mississippi to visit two friends with terminal illness - what drives us to travel long distances to see people? What do we hope to gain? What are we looking to impart? I have no definitive answers to my questions but am comforted by a wondrous peace in being with the friends I love. There is a mysterious presence with close friends and family. An awareness that truth can be discovered amid harrowing circumstances and fear, especially in fellowship with those you are certain will rest with you in glory. I, like most people, am haunted by the need for community and the fear of its costs, which is perhaps one of the coldest and most heralded victories of human sin. The very notion of isolation in man is an anathema to our created intent. Yet, sadly, many experience peace only when alone, while true spiritual health is attained only through vital fellowship with others who are intimately connected to Christ. As we impart on the new year, I implore you to take stock of those you love and those who love you - are the relationships advancing in grace or simply circling in comfort? God's speed to you in the New Year, and may God bless your friendships and families.

Rev. J Kyle Parker

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